Toy Boy?


This past weekend, my wife and I stopped by at a nearby “home showcase.” Basically, the idea is that a number of construction companies build a model house in the same area, and then you can visit all the big name companies and see their wares at the same location. In Japan, that means companies like “Seki-sui Haim,” “Daiwa House,” and “Ichijo Koumuten.” (The “haim” is “heim” in German, i.e., home…no idea why a company would have two divisions with one using “home” and one using “heim”…)

At any rate, the homes were far too large for the amount of land we are likely to afford. But it was an interesting experience. Except for our daughter.

She did behave quite well at first, but it was a hot day and we talked with (read –> were talked at by) a sales representative for about two straight hours. Fortunately, one of the companies’ model homes came with a children’s play rooms. Our daughter was too young to use the Wii (which was being used by a older girl anyway). But she was just the right age to appreciate Pokeman cars. The sales rep seemed a little surprised at her choice, but it didn’t surprise us at all.

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One if by Land, Two if by Sea…


Last weekend, my family went to Nagoya. The impetus was a concert by a local chorus my wife had once belonged to, but since it was an overnight stay, we also had a chance to take our daughter sightseeing. It came down to a choice between the zoo and the aquarium. We chose the aquarium, mainly because it was hot outside. It did help that our daughter liked water in general, though.

Should we not allow children to see wildlife in aquariums?

Nagoya City Aquarium‘s main attraction is its dolphins. Signs claimed it was a “Japanese dolphin,” and that it was smaller than the well-known bottle-nosed dolphin…although it looked like one to me. The black-streaked Japanese dolphin apparently lives mostly in the Sea of Japan (or is it the East Korean Sea? Frankly, whichever is fine with me. No interest at all in naming politics.) The Japanese version of Wikipedia claims that there are over 30 kinds of dolphins living around Japan. No idea. Dolphins look like dolphins to me. Anyway, our daughter had a fun time watching the aquarium staff feed and talk to them just inches away from us.

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Where no toddler has gone before…


Now that our daughter has stood up on her own (albeit for seconds at best), and has shown signs of beginning to walk, my wife and I started “baby-proofing” the apartment. We were particularly worried (of course) about the kitchen, that place of knives, pots and pans, and gas burners.

More effective than a gate?

A gate would seem the obvious solution. Problem: by a quirk of apartment architecture, the entrance to our kitchen is just barely too narrow for anything available on the market.

Solution: Listen to your relatives. My wife’s aunt (who herself raised two children while working full time at a junior high school) suggested that we simply put cheap squares of plastic artificial “grass” at the entrance.

The theory was that babies can’t stand the way the plastic feels, and so they avoid it. And once we got four of the 100 yen squares, the theory did, indeed, prove to be true. Our daughter simply didn’t like touching them, and halted at the kitchen entrance.

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